Shayne On You: You're Not A Party Pooper!
Published: July 7th, 2010
By: Maggie Shayne

Shayne on You: You're not a party pooper!

Dear Maggie,

My mom and dad have a lot of friends, a lot of relatives, and a lot of fun. Most of which involves alcohol. I, on the other hand, have a major problem with alcohol, and within the past year, decided that I had to give it up entirely. Now, whenever I visit my parents, they do what they’ve always done. They make it an occasion by inviting lots of people over, and having lots of music, lots of food and lots of booze.

I’ve tried to tell them how hard it is for me to be around people who are drinking and not drink myself. And they say, “Oh, just have one or two!” Or, “Oh, you don’t have to drink hon. We understand.” I don’t think they believe me when I tell them I don’t feel capable of stopping at one or two – never have been. Or when I try to explain how hard it is to just say no.

What can I do to make them understand? I’m really proud of myself for making this choice. They seem to think it’s no big deal.

Signed,

Party Pooper

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Dear Strong, Wise, Wonderful One,

They’ll probably never understand unless they try to give up alcohol themselves and find out how hard it is, particularly for those with an addiction to it.

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