Dear Maggie,

I’ve been with the same guy for more than two years now, and I love him madly, but he still hasn’t proposed to me. I’m beginning to wonder if I’m wasting my time. How much longer should I wait before giving him the ultimate ultimatum? I mean, sooner or later, he has to commit to me, or I should walk, right? Otherwise, he’ll just keep putting it off forever, won’t he? He has it made. We live together, so he has all the benefits of having a wife, without the paperwork. We never fight – in fact, we have a lot of fun together and this is the only issue I have with our relationship. So what should I do to make him marry me?

Signed,

Miserable

Dear Miserable,