From house calls to no calls

Whatever happened to doctors who made house-calls or checked in on their patients when they knew they weren’t feeling well? I’ve heard tales like that, but in my life I’ve never actually seen it, and if recent events are any indication, I doubt I will see it anytime soon.

In the last couple of weeks, I have had quite a few opportunities to visit my favorite medical professionals. I know they have a difficult and sometimes thankless job, but my only advice is know when you’re going to get sick, and plan ahead. It may sound impossible, but if you see what happens when you don’t, you’ll understand why.

For months and months and months, my 16 month old baby has been suffering with horrible allergies. We tried one doctor after another (many of whom refused to even entertain the idea of allergies), who suggested everything from eating only organic, wheat-free, dairy-free foods to investing in humidifiers and dehumidifiers and air filters to “cleansing our auras” – but nothing seemed to work. It took months, and finally someone said, maybe it’s just allergies and prescribed some medicine.

Although I was quite annoyed that no one had listened to my allergy theory at the beginning and saved us some time, I was thrilled to see my baby stop looking like the slime monster from an episode of Scooby-Doo, and even more excited that we could both finally get a full night’s sleep.



That is until last week when farmers began cutting hay and the worst pollen-spreading flowers begin to pop up on every hill, lawn and garden. So with my little slime monster back in full force, I called an allergist to make an appointment. They got us in, but it will be December before anyone can see him. So, if he’s allergic to Santa Claus, snow or Christmas cookies, then we’re in luck, but if it’s a seasonal allergy, I’m not really sure what they’ll find.

I also had to go to the doctor’s office recently. After being rushed in for some blood tests that had to be done “as soon as possible,” I’ll admit, I was a little nervous about what the doctor was looking for and what she would find. I waited until the following day to call and get the results. Apparently that was a big mistake.

The girl on the phone sounded sweet, as she assured me that the doctor would have a nurse call me as soon as she got back from her two-week vacation and found time to look at the test results and write down what they meant and give them to her nurse.

As it turned out, nothing was seriously wrong, but for two weeks I wasn’t too sure.

So, I’ve learned an important lesson, plan ahead. In fact, I’ve already called the allergy specialist to make an appointment for next summer, just in case the allergy problem still hasn’t been solved. That way we should get in to see them sometime before 2012.

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4 comments on this story

upstatenyer
August 16th, 2007 at 8:07 am
I was harsh and I apologize, perhaps I may even call you to apologize. I work in the medical profession and those comments heard every day when one is doing the best they can, trying to please everyone. Waiting 4 months for an appt is a long wait to get an ill child in - I didnt pay attention to that. I sincerely apologize - I'm just a little burned out in health care and all the politics and complaining when we are doing our very best with what we have.
jessica
August 15th, 2007 at 12:10 pm
Upstatenyer:
It seems like I got you pretty upset. First let me say that I do respect people in the medical profession. My sister is a nurse, and a darn good one, and I think I even stated that it is sometimes a long and thankless job. While I agree with you in some regards, (I know many people are quick to ask for a prescription fix and take their children to the doctor for every tiny hiccup) I also know the difference between the two. Maybe I also should have mentioned that the doctor my son sees now is great. My problem isn't with him, but the time it has taken to find someone willing to address the problem.
As I have tried every over the counter allergy medicine that can possibly be used on a one year old child and have tried countless natural remedies, I don't think I fall into that particular category. Forgive me if I become annoyed when I sit up with a very young child night after night who is coughing until he vomits, only to have a doctor tell me I need to wait four months for an appointment. I think any parent would be a little annoyed with that. I think I have had a considerable amount of patience, since this has been going on for over six months.
Also for clarification, I didn't say that "no one does house calls," I said I've never seen it.
I'm sorry you took offense to this article, and I'm also sorry you've decided to judge my intelligence based on so little knowledge of my situation, but I will refrain from doing the same. Have a good day.
upstatenyer
August 15th, 2007 at 11:04 am
Jessica, You have no idea what it is truly like to work in medicine these days. There is a doctor in the area that makes house calls. Medicine is an art not a science sometimes and "putting kids on meds" is sometimes the easy way out. Parents need to take some responsiblility for their childs health - If you suspect allergies than by some OTC allergy med and give it a try. Dealing with managed care, medicaid (most people dont realize the reimbursment for the hour long office visit it $7.00. Long hours and little pay is what medicine is all about. I hate when people get on a soap box about care they recieve and have no clue what they are talking about. I thought you were a decent person but seems you are just as ignorant as the rest. I dont like to be hurtful but I hate it when people are so quick to "blame" doctors. Please have patience with them and get out there and get more info before you say "no one does house calls" People used to only go to the doctor when they were really ill and tried everything else - now doctors time is taken up with nonsense most of the time!
timwendi
August 15th, 2007 at 9:03 am
Good thinking Jessica. It is so hard to get Dr's to listen to parents about allergies. My family is full of allergy related problems but the Dr's still say no. I should have went to medical school so I could take care of my family's medical needs myself.............oh wait, I guess I do that now..........and most of the time I do a better job than the so called professionals do!!!! Good luck Jessica !
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