Bad accident in Bainbridge

[braddastuff]

I think enough comments and POV's have been said. You people just love when this stuff happens, so you can come on and give you advise and tell your stories. A family has lost a loved one. Does that not mean anything to you? You can say they should of done this or that but they didn't. Let the family grieve. You all need to get a life and stop using these comment sections as a way of life. Seriously look in the mirror. If something like this happened to a loved one, would you want people you didn't know to comment about it on a online comment section? Would you care what people thought? The fact is that really all of you need to get a life. Actually work at work and not look every 20 minutes of this section to see who answered your comment. To all the family's involved in this accident god bless you. May you find strength you never knew you had.

[Dave715]

I think enough comments and POV's have been said. You people just love when this stuff happens, so you can come on and give you advise and tell your stories. A family has lost a loved one. Does that not mean anything to you? You can say they should of done this or that but they didn't. Let the family grieve. You all need to get a life and stop using these comment sections as a way of life. Seriously look in the mirror. If something like this happened to a loved one, would you want people you didn't know to comment about it on a online comment section? Would you care what people thought? The fact is that really all of you need to get a life. Actually work at work and not look every 20 minutes of this section to see who answered your comment. To all the family's involved in this accident god bless you. May you find strength you never knew you had.

Get a grip. If this conversation was going on in a barbershop, bar, store, or someones house, you couldnt do a thing. This is news and people will talk. Get over it and deal.

[nynurse]

agreed.

[Casper]

I think enough comments and POV's have been said. You people just love when this stuff happens, so you can come on and give you advise and tell your stories. A family has lost a loved one. Does that not mean anything to you? You can say they should of done this or that but they didn't. Let the family grieve. You all need to get a life and stop using these comment sections as a way of life. Seriously look in the mirror. If something like this happened to a loved one, would you want people you didn't know to comment about it on a online comment section? Would you care what people thought? The fact is that really all of you need to get a life. Actually work at work and not look every 20 minutes of this section to see who answered your comment. To all the family's involved in this accident god bless you. May you find strength you never knew you had.

You are so right, but it really is only a hand few here that have nothing better to do than flog a topic to death 24/7. Most people are not that hard up for a life.

[onetime]

I think enough comments and POV's have been said. You people just love when this stuff happens, so you can come on and give you advise and tell your stories. A family has lost a loved one. Does that not mean anything to you? You can say they should of done this or that but they didn't. Let the family grieve. You all need to get a life and stop using these comment sections as a way of life. Seriously look in the mirror. If something like this happened to a loved one, would you want people you didn't know to comment about it on a online comment section? Would you care what people thought? The fact is that really all of you need to get a life. Actually work at work and not look every 20 minutes of this section to see who answered your comment. To all the family's involved in this accident god bless you. May you find strength you never knew you had.

You are so right, but it really is only a hand few here that have nothing better to do than flog a topic to death 24/7. Most people are not that hard up for a life.

This has happened to my family. What I am saying is that there needs to be harsher punishments for those responsible for taking lives! As for not having a life? I have a very active one. Part of that life happens to be saying what I want and when I want to. Saying what I need to say about this situation is my way of getting the word out. Showing my support for yet another family that has lost a loved one as my family did! Maybe you should stay off the forum unless you can contribute to a solution to the problem!

[Dave715]

This has happened to my family. What I am saying is that there needs to be harsher punishments for those responsible for taking lives! As for not having a life? I have a very active one. Part of that life happens to be saying what I want and when I want to. Saying what I need to say about this situation is my way of getting the word out. Showing my support for yet another family that has lost a loved one as my family did! Maybe you should stay off the forum unless you can contribute to a solution to the problem!

So what are we doing? We are saying what we need to say. Showing support for those that lost!! Stay off the forum? Are you kidding???? Thats what forums are for. Maybe the sensy ones are the ones that should stay off.

[paigetiffany]

Alright I know alot of people have something to say about this accident but instead of blaming everybody you should really think about what your saying. I am very sorry for the parents' loss in this accident and I dont think anyone was right in this situation. However bringing Joseph Beardsley's sisters' accident into the conversation is not right its rude and hurtful. He may have done a wrong thing by buying the alcohol but "who asked for it?" the kids did. "who got in the car with the drunk driver?" the kids did "who drank the alcohol" the kids did. He bough the beer but what about those "real smart" kids that drank it and got in the car with Trebor. So dont put the blame on one person when they are all too blame.

[patmlaw]

Alright I know alot of people have something to say about this accident but instead of blaming everybody you should really think about what your saying. I am very sorry for the parents' loss in this accident and I dont think anyone was right in this situation. However bringing Joseph Beardsley's sisters' accident into the conversation is not right its rude and hurtful. He may have done a wrong thing by buying the alcohol but "who asked for it?" the kids did. "who got in the car with the drunk driver?" the kids did "who drank the alcohol" the kids did. He bough the beer but what about those "real smart" kids that drank it and got in the car with Trebor. So dont put the blame on one person when they are all too blame.

I guess this thread just won't die a slow death. If an adult, ANY adult, had not purchased the alcohol to begin with, this whole thing may not have happened. The adult is going to be held responsible, no matter what. If you're a "real smart" adult, you would not have had any participation in it. Adults should know better. Just because they ask for it doesn't mean you have to run out and get it, then try to shift the responsibility on the kids. Where is your head??

Don't blame it on the kids. They have not had enough experience with alcohol. When you're drinking, you really have no idea how drunk someone else is. You only know how you, yourself, are feeling. The intoxicated kids probably had no idea the driver was that drunk.

[justaguy]

However bringing Joseph Beardsley's sisters' accident into the conversation is not right its rude and hurtful. He may have done a wrong thing by buying the alcohol but "who asked for it?" the kids did. "who got in the car with the drunk driver?" the kids did "who drank the alcohol" the kids did. He bough the beer but what about those "real smart" kids that drank it and got in the car with Trebor. So dont put the blame on one person when they are all too blame.

Sounds to me like someone is related to Joseph Beardsley.

[criedi]

Alright I know alot of people have something to say about this accident but instead of blaming everybody you should really think about what your saying. I am very sorry for the parents' loss in this accident and I dont think anyone was right in this situation. However bringing Joseph Beardsley's sisters' accident into the conversation is not right its rude and hurtful. He may have done a wrong thing by buying the alcohol but "who asked for it?" the kids did. "who got in the car with the drunk driver?" the kids did "who drank the alcohol" the kids did. He bough the beer but what about those "real smart" kids that drank it and got in the car with Trebor. So dont put the blame on one person when they are all too blame.

I guess this thread just won't die a slow death. If an adult, ANY adult, had not purchased the alcohol to begin with, this whole thing may not have happened. The adult is going to be held responsible, no matter what. If you're a "real smart" adult, you would not have had any participation in it. Adults should know better. Just because they ask for it doesn't mean you have to run out and get it, then try to shift the responsibility on the kids. Where is your head??

Don't blame it on the kids. They have not had enough experience with alcohol. When you're drinking, you really have no idea how drunk someone else is. You only know how you, yourself, are feeling. The intoxicated kids probably had no idea the driver was that drunk.

Amen.

[wolfmanx4]

They are ALL to blame, simple as that!!!!

[jrg]

Alright I know alot of people have something to say about this accident but instead of blaming everybody you should really think about what your saying. I am very sorry for the parents' loss in this accident and I dont think anyone was right in this situation. However bringing Joseph Beardsley's sisters' accident into the conversation is not right its rude and hurtful. He may have done a wrong thing by buying the alcohol but "who asked for it?" the kids did. "who got in the car with the drunk driver?" the kids did "who drank the alcohol" the kids did. He bough the beer but what about those "real smart" kids that drank it and got in the car with Trebor. So dont put the blame on one person when they are all too blame.

How is bringing her accident into conversation rude? Its a bi-factor. He should have known what could, would and has happened in the past. You are right, no one was right in this situation. However, it only takes one word to stop the process, that word is no! If he needed a ride back to Bainbridge or whatever... (this is what is being claimed) he has SEVERAL family members in the area that would have been happy to give him a ride home.

As for being related to Joey? Yes I am, and right now if given the chance I would kick him right square for the pain that he has caused! I do not know who PaigeTiffany is, but as far as I know, no relation...

[SUNY1979]

I think enough comments and POV's have been said. You people just love when this stuff happens, so you can come on and give you advise and tell your stories. A family has lost a loved one. Does that not mean anything to you? You can say they should of done this or that but they didn't. Let the family grieve. You all need to get a life and stop using these comment sections as a way of life. Seriously look in the mirror. If something like this happened to a loved one, would you want people you didn't know to comment about it on a online comment section? Would you care what people thought? The fact is that really all of you need to get a life. Actually work at work and not look every 20 minutes of this section to see who answered your comment. To all the family's involved in this accident god bless you. May you find strength you never knew you had.

Get a grip. If this conversation was going on in a barbershop, bar, store, or someones house, you couldnt do a thing. This is news and people will talk. Get over it and deal.

Wow aren't we feeling pretty high and mighty today?